08 Dec 2019 | 05:41am IST
WHEN A RESTAURANT BECAME A THERAPY AGAINST ALCOHOLISM
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day breaks in the village
of Betalbatim, with early sunrays washing away the shadows of the night. There
is a grammar to village sounds. Consistent and earthy, they set the rhythm of
the day, infused with normalcy of a daily humdrum.
While roads to the beach have visages of tourism, home stays,
small hotels and restaurants, the old churches (Benaulim has two by the way)
and the back roads, only locals know, keep the essence of village-hood intact.
While all of Goa is pristine, because nature ordains it to be, Betalbatim – in
fact many of Salcette’s interior villages, does well by just being “untampered”
In the genteel morning cacophony of the village, decibel levels
go up ever so slowly till it reaches a crescendo at the tinto, after the fish
has been bought and the headlines in Herald have been scanned and the first
“discussions” on its news done and dusted.
It is in this environment that Fransisco Fernandes wakes up,
emerges from his home and into the outer portion which is his restaurant and
looks at the Cross on the road. He has much to pray for and much to thank.
After a silent bow and a prayer he sets off for the fish market, while his
mother, Anunceasao, starts working on the spices. To many who live in Salcette,
this is a very common occurrence in homes which are also restaurants. The
father or son sets out, while the mother, and at times the daughter or daughter
in-law get to work on the most important part of their daily lives- prepare the
spices for the day, both for home and the restaurant.
There is no magic realism here. This is life. Across most family
run restaurants in coastal Salcete, there is a natural osmosis between the home
and the restaurant with private and public areas blurring constantly. And this
is an extension of village life as it were, where homes were never locked,
people came in and out of homes and kitchens and the dining table always had
people and food was never short. It is this spirit which permeates in many
traditional eating places.
So Francisco’s little restaurant on the Benaulim-Colva road at
Betalbatim, called ‘Little Banana’, is just that. Francisco manages, and mae
Anunceasao and wife Vincy do the back end work. While discovering places like Little
Banana and the folks who create such masterpieces, is the mission of this
column, what really brings us to these places again and again are the stories
of the lives of these creators. And many of them are inspirational as well as
moving.
His story is now being told with his permission, for he sees it
as a story of his transformation. Yours truly asked him repeatedly if this
aspect of his life should or could be shared and he said “If my story prevents
a single boy from the village from following my path, I will be happy”.
Fransisco, like many of his silk set sail to make a living. And
while he worked and earned, he also took to drinking. And this wasn’t casual
drinking. When he returned to Goa’s shores, he had a very healthy bank balance
and an unhealthy lifestyle. But money attracts followers and hangers on who
were his drinking and party companions. Massive bills in bars and restaurants
were settled by Fransisco, is those days of alcohol filled hedonism. Finally
the tap began to run dry and to meet hi s needs, he turned to his family who he
troubled and caused great grief to. Realising that his life and finances were
going downhill, he helped himsel f. He stopped drinking and going out, prayer
became a part of his life and he decided to start a restaurant, focusing
energies on one of his core skills-cooking and looking after people. Little
Banana, a modest outdoor setting, wasn’t just a restaurant. It became his
therapy.
On an afternoon this week, a friend from the village and yours
truly, heard his narrative and ate his food. We didn’t actually have a meal but
snacked on his silver fish- vellio and his fried prawns. But it has been
witnessed in these parts that folks, many foreigner- locals, swear by
Francisco’s curry and his pork dishes. The aadmas, roast and amsol vie with his
beef dishes washed down with soft drinks and kokum juice perhaps. But there is
no alcohol, either at the tables, or at Francisco’s home. All he does is keep a
bottle of chilled cola when he eats, to avoid other urges. And importantly, his
patrons support him.
He is not just a local boy who has returned to work in the
village, he has chosen to reshape his life from slipping into disaster.
We left, with the obvious intent to go back for a full meal.
Next stop, as yours truly does often these days- discover an
above average coffee place or a restaurant that does good coffee, was Chai
Khana. At the junction where the road turns to Nanu resorts, on the Colva-
Benaulim road, immediately after the Betalbatim Church crossing, is Chai Khana,
run by Cyril Henriques, whose family were the original gaonkars of Mormugao. He
owns the popular fish joint – Fishka opposite th e Alila Diwa hotel, and could
easily pass of as a scientist who lives in a lab. Short with a flowing beard
and professorial countenance, Cyril not only does great coffee but very good
American pancakes and everything in between. A trip is surely due soon to have
his breakfast spread.
As this
wanderer pulled back, and drove through roads one regularly traversed through
Majorda, Utorda, Arrosim and Cansaulim, every milestone seemed to remind one of
countless such stories of inspiration, in this South Goa countryside.