07 Apr 2020 | 03:20am IST
When daddies are home
‘Daddy’s home”, is often a cry you hear in many homes, as dads get back home from work or an outstation trip. But in the last three weeks, dads have always been at home. And homes are adjusting to this phenomenon with happy kids but even happier daddies
Akshay Naik from Vasco is having a great time enjoying the company
of his son Aariv and niece Tanisi during the lockdown as he says, “I am getting
a lot of time to spend with my child since its a lockdown. Work from home has
allowed me to spend some time with him. Time passes too quickly in his company,
cuddling and laughing.
When my son is asleep Tanisi my niece and I do wall paintings and
drawings. My wife will have a tough time after the lockdown is over and I will
be back at work.”
Keval Raikar a class 8 student from Margao is facing a crisis at
home as he expressed, “My father is a little strict about things at home and is
very systematic. He works for a private firm as an accountant and spends most of
his time working on the laptop. I hardly get to talk to him. It makes no much
difference even though there is a lockdown.”
Children understand very little about the lockdown period
especially the younger ones. When they see their working parents home, it means
a holiday for them. Very excited about the very fact that her father is home
Natalie Da Silva a class 7 student from Dona Paula says, “I am very happy to
see my father home all the time talking to me, cracking jokes, teaching me new
tricks and much more. We pray together and eat together, and I definitely
cherish these moments with my father.”
“Lockdown has helped me immensely to spend quality time with my
two-year-old daughter. The time we spent helped us understand her better. I
also had an opportunity to celebrate her 2nd birthday this month amid limited
resources and close family members. They all chipped in with home-made
delicacies. It’s fun teaching her some nursery rhymes and the way she responds
with her cute recitations. It will be a memorable time with my family as I will
recollect it in the future”, expressed Ashwin de Souza from Aldona, a
professor.
For most of the working fathers, it is the best time of the year
despite so many challenges. Lockdown has surely created wonderful moments for
dads and kids together. Clifton Fernandes, from Verla-Parra is a physical
education teacher and engages in many sports activities but now his enjoying
the lockdown period with his daughter Cathleen. “My day starts with taking my
daughter from a stroll in the garden.
Through her routine activities these days I’ve started living my
childhood. Singing rhymes and babbling is our favorite activity. The best part
of this lockdown is I could see my daughter stand for the first time. She does
play by herself but looking at her every day doing some new action, coming up with
new sounds, exploring each room of the house and responding to our talk, is the
best part of staying home during the lockdown. I hardly use my mobile phone
unless I get work-related calls.”
With work from home daddies in so many homes in Goa, fatherhood has
brought new joys, that were unthinkable before the lockdown.