But one day a boy, hardly 15-16 years of age, came in our office with bunch of incense sticks and approached him. At first he told that he does not require it. When the boy once again humbly insisted to take at least a single pack; he stood up from his seat, took out an Rs10/20 note and very humbly offered it to the boy, but also making it known that he will not take the sticks. The boy, obviously poor, but was possessed of immense self respect. He would not take the note without handing the sticks. And our colleague would just give the money, not take the sticks! This tug of war continued for few minutes. Later sensing the immense humility of our colleague who is not giving the note as alms but with utmost love and also perhaps respecting his age; the boy finally took the money. The eyes of both the boy and our colleague turned moist.