A family that left New York City behind for a quieter life in rural Italy says they have no plans to return to the United States permanently after finding financial freedom and a better work-life balance.
Cassandra Tresl, her husband and their daughter relocated to Italy in 2023 after purchasing a home in the Abruzzo region for just 11,500 euros, roughly $13,000. The decision came after the couple struggled with New York’s soaring living costs and realised owning a home in the city seemed increasingly unrealistic.
The family had been paying nearly $2,000 each month in rent before deciding to explore opportunities abroad. Becoming parents during the pandemic encouraged them to rethink their priorities and search for a lifestyle that was both affordable and less stressful.
After buying the property outright, they spent around 15,000 euros renovating and furnishing it, including replacing the plumbing. Without a mortgage, the family says they now enjoys far greater financial security.
Their monthly expenses have also fallen significantly. Full-time preschool for their daughter costs about $70 a month, while utility bills, internet and mobile plans are considerably cheaper than in the US.
Rather than settling in popular tourist destinations such as Tuscany, the couple chose a small village in Abruzzo with around 1,300 residents. They preferred a quieter environment away from heavy tourism and believe the slower pace of life has improved their overall well-being.
The family later purchased a second property for around $20,000, renovated it and now rents it out, generating additional monthly income.
Although Cassandra accepted a lower-paying marketing job with an Italian travel company after leaving her US-based tech role, she says the improved quality of life outweighs the reduced salary. While she misses friends and family back home, she believes living mortgage-free and without constant financial pressure has made Italy the ideal place to raise her family.

