CANDOLIM: Reshma Jamadar, a 35-year-old woman from Fattewaddo-Nerul, has defied traditional expectations and become a symbol of strength and empowerment in her community. Balancing multiple roles, Reshma works tirelessly to support her family – she starts her day by running the household and cooking delicious food for her family, then works as a sales professional in the afternoon. And by night, she takes on the role of a female security guard, or a ‘security guard’.
Reshma’s journey is particularly remarkable given the conservative background she comes from, where women are often discouraged from working outside the home. However, with the support of her family, Reshma has set a powerful example for future generations.
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After losing her father at the age of five, Reshma was raised by her mother, alongside two sisters. Her mother, who was uneducated, worked as housekeeping staff at local hotels to make ends meet. After completing her BA at Dempo College, Reshma began her career as a customer feedback representative in Panjim. Seeking additional income to ease her mother’s burdens, she took up a job as a security guard at a nightclub. Reflecting on her journey, she shares, “Initially, my family was reluctant to let me take on a job that required me to be out at night and could expose me to unsavoury people. Even though they knew that I could take care of myself, they were worried about what my extended family would think and felt that my job as a bouncer would affect my marriage prospects in the Muslim community,” she recalls. However, Reshma’s mother and sisters soon understood the satisfaction she derived from her work and began supporting her whole heartedly. “My family used to make excuses when I couldn’t attend weddings and functions,” she recalls.
Initially, Reshma found her role as a security guard challenging, as it lacked the respect, she felt it deserved. “I was embarrassed and would never tell people I worked as a security guard, but over time, with a new management and my own growing confidence, I realised it’s a very respectable and important job, especially in Goa” she said. Reshma’s job involves checking guests for contraband at the gates, keeping a hawk’s eye out for troublemakers or overtly inebriated people in the club, ensuring that the musicians and their equipment are safe, and most importantly, watching over the women and keeping them safe within the nightclub.
When Reshma got married, her husband, a pharmacist, proved to be her biggest cheerleader. “He was not fazed by my late-night job; he said he would help me in whatever way he could, and he’s kept his word. He’s also defended what I do to relatives who do not understand it,” she adds.
Reshma’s daily routine is a testament to her dedication. After completing her household chores in the morning, she handles her work calls from home and heads to the office when needed. Upon returning home, she rests briefly before reporting to her night job, which lasts until 3 am.
Safety has always been a concern for Reshma, especially given that she rides home alone in the wee hours of the morning. To address this, she has equipped herself with self-defence techniques. “Being in the business for almost 10 years now, I know a few self-defence moves and how to handle myself in a sticky situation,” she tells O Heraldo, emphasising the importance of women learning self-defence.
What began as a means of earning extra income has evolved into a passion for Reshma.
“Now, I do it because it’s an opportunity to experience the nightlife in a new way. I get to connect with people from all walks of life, and most rewarding of all, I get to be a part of creating a safe and empowering space for women to enjoy themselves without fear. It’s a sense of responsibility and a joy to contribute to the community in a meaningful way,” she says with a smile.
