PLACE OF STONE IN HUMAN LIFE

Last fortnight the annual ‘Pathron Ka Khel’ meaning stone-pelting ceremony was  celebrated at  Dhami, some 25 kms from Shimla, the  capital of Himachal Pradesh. This ‘auspicious’ and customary  event is  held as a sort of contest between two groups of locals of Dhami. According to legend, the ritual originated in the 18th Century when humans were sacrificed to appease Goddess Bhadrakali. Later, human sacrifice was stopped and instead a ‘Tilak’ of blood was smeared  on the statue of the deity after the stone pelting festival. The contestants line up and pelt stones at each other till a participant is hurt, blood oozes out. The contest ends and tilak of blood is smeared on the idol.

Pelting of stones  on others is an ancient custom. In sacred Bible those who committed the crime of adultery were stoned to death by a group of people. 

A group of people brought a woman accusing her of committing adultery in front of Jesus. Then they told the Lord that punishment for someone  like her should be stoning to death. To this, the Lord stated that the one who was without sin was the one who  should cast the first stone at her. The  accusers and congregants departed realising  not one of them  was without sin. Jesus then told the woman to go and sin no more.

In holy Quran also there is a  custom of stoning a convict of the crime of adultery to death. This capital punishment is called Rajm. In Islam stoning is also part of annual Haj Pilgrimage . The ritual of stoning here is called Rami and the place where stones are pelted is called Jamraat. The faithful believe that they throw stones on the devil.

In India, historically,  stones commend great respect. Here, most of the idols of deities and statues of great persons are made up of stones. A period in history  when weapons and tools were made of stones is called stone-Age. And an event marking a significant new development is called milestone. There is one legend as regards stone. On returning from his bath, sage Gauthan found his wife Ahilya in bed with Indra, a sight that had him maddened  with rage. And so, Gauthan cursed Ahilya to be turned to stone. Later on, in Ramayana, Lord Rama liberated  her from the  curse.

There is a beautiful couplet on stone in Konkani that criticises the hypocrites in religions by  eminent poet late Manoharrai Sardesai;

The God of stone is bathed by blood the man of blood is pounded by stone.

Stone is a symbol of strength. That is why during naming ceremony, Hindus place a small grinding stone in the cradle before baby is put into it. This  signifies that the baby has to have a strong and healthy  body. Three of the most important  proverbs on stone are: 1) A rolling stone gathers no moss. 2) Don’t waste too many stones on one bird. 3) Those who  live in glass houses should not throw stones on others.

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