Caught off guard by our choices

We live a sterile life going about doing the mundane duties and fulfilling our needs. While executing our obligations, we also have social commitments that want us to stay in tune with current happenings. The act of discharging these beliefs and making it a mantra, leaves us wanting for more. Be it celebrating festivities, occasions or even parties. In order to feel a sense of belongingness to either of these entities, enables us to navigate our requirements and maintain an astute awareness of the many layers of ourselves that unfold through the course of these events.
When we fail to go along with the flow, one may get emotionally stifled or relent the circumstances. People frame us as per their expectations and we willingly fall prey to their notions of what we think they want us to be. When we find ourselves trapped, we begin to doubt our capabilities and question our self worth. Depending on the spectrum of the situation, one may be equipped to conceal their viles by seeking recourse through legal aid or in asylums. But what happens when we find ourselves in solitary confinement and the insecurities creep in and hound us like a pack of wolves? Feeling frustrated and unable to maintain that status quo, can preempt us to indulge in matters of different sorts. Is that the reason why people keep themselves constantly wired and socially connected with the environment in which they thrive? Is keeping busy the answer to dissipating the ugly and gory truth about our identity. 
The revelation of ourselves is at its zenith when we are caught off guard and its our response to it that ushers us into the unknown.That explains why we get petrified and exhausted with peers and partners. We enter our workplaces with a conscious awareness of what we wish to deliver and prepare ourselves accordingly. The corresponding party unaware of our limitations and expectations offer themselves up as a ransom. It’s necessary to firstly create a foothold of our situations in order to face the trajectory of the events. We forge friendships and nurture relationships to further our purpose and sustain our passions. We deny close proximity in relationships, out of fear of far feeling vulnerable and hurting our self esteem. 
There are many people out there, that put themselves up on display in the public eye to enthuse or educate the masses. Myriad professionals pursue their interests with things that they are passionate about. The drive and energy to tap one’s potentials and put them to the test can propel them to ludicrous heights or leave them feeling satiated. It’s the surreal happenings that nudge us to push ourselves and display our credibility to the world. In order to have an upbeat attitude and approach to our intuitions, it  calls for discipline and persistence. Inspired by several bloggers and vloggers that post erudite content prompted me to jibe with the facts. Besides being an educationist, I thought it worthwhile to try my hands at the former, through the assistance of a tech savvy friend. Being e-illiterate as I am and still way too young to surpass that phase, I took it up as a challenge to train myself and master new skills. As my friend initiated the proceedings through much probing, it helped me understand the finer nuances of artsy workmanship. 

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