Drifting away from the political fiasco that has been hogging the lime light these days, just wanted to rewind on the past week that celebrated Woman’s Day. With all due respect to men this occasion too was partially geared towards great pomp and fanfare in celebrating the emancipation of women.
Women since time immemorial formed the quintessential component of the human race. She was marginalised in the forgone era but now has the freedom to do things at her will. Albeit there are numerous tales of woman acting dubiously on the pretext of seeking attention.
But what about the unsung and unheard women who slog daily to make ends meet. She could be your sister, daughter, mother, maid, colleague, etc. She is expected to multi- task and accomplish every possible task at hand. If she errs, society creates a stereotype and labels her. It’s rare that second chances would ever favour her. How then do these women view themselves? Due to fear of being exposed she essentially incurs the wrath that befalls upon her. Seeking therapy is something far fetched. At times due to dependency upon the male counterpart she is forced to reconcile to her fate. But to the women who feel that they have lost their worth and self respect in the eyes of mankind, should not feel utterly dismayed. Every setback has a lesson to be learnt.
Dear women, as you accept yourself with all your flaws and inequities you are not surrendering to weakness but instead understanding that you have scope for improvement. It takes maturity to let go of the past .Do not dwell on the failures but understand that it was meant to propel you to achieve greater heights. There are many women out there who are longing to see the light of day. Don’t wait for the right moment. It all depends on what you make of what you have in the present. Sometimes our eyes need a tear wash to help us have a better view of what lies ahead. Don’t allow your emotions to over rule you. You deserve the best no matter what the circumstances is. Manage your time constructively and engage in creative hobbies. Don’t attempt to run away from the negative situation by consciously drowning yourself into work or other social activities for that would mean that you wish to escape the process instead of encountering it face on. Remember that some people have already walked that road before you while others are still in the process.
Sometimes the good is snatched away to give way to something better. It’s alright to feel dejected occasionally as the pain of loss can blot the righteous path. You don’t always have to seek recourse in another person to make up for the anxiety. Nobody can love you more than yourself. Forgive the past and reconcile with the present. Forgiveness is the attribute of a strong person. It allows one to look beyond the weaknesses of the opponent. Remember that every person is going through a process and if you are working hard enough don’t expect another to adapt to your needs. Expectations can let you down.
Having said this, no species can live in isolation. Remember dear men that this woman could someday be your spouse, tutor or mentor. Treat her with equal compassion as she too deserves a right to passage.
