“Greed are the handcuffs and gratitude is the key. Sadly sometimes we prefer wearing the cuffs to finding the keys.” – Craig D. Lounsbrough
A cushy job, a perfect family, financial stability and a great social life! In this indefinite pursuit of happiness, how often do we spare a minute to thank for what we already have? The relentless pursuit of wealth and possessions can end up as a mirage: A pursuit that brings no lasting happiness. Rather we may truly find contentment by focusing on relationships, personal growth, and yet contribute to the well-being of others. Haven’t we observed in life that one’s overwhelming greed blinds us from recognizing the true value of what we already possess? Avarice, the other word for “Greed” Exhausts the person who is on an unending trail in search of happiness where it does not manifestly exist. Greed can turn a harmless individual into a ruthless monster. In order to overcome the human negativity, one ought to rewire the brain to be grateful: Grateful for every moment of our life. Greed distorts our perception of what truly matters in life.
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Greed is a bottomless pit. It can corrupt individuals, leading them to act in morally reprehensible ways. By recognizing the potential dangers of greed, individuals can cultivate self-awareness and guard against compromising their values in the pursuit of material wealth or personal glory.
Maintaining a strong moral compass entails making choices that prioritize empathy and integrity. Greed is the disease of discontentment. In reality it is not happiness that makes us grateful. It is rather the attitude of gratitude which heralds happiness in our lives. By appreciating the abundance of love, health, and happiness that already exists, individuals can break free from the grip of greed and cultivate an enduring mindset of gratitude and contentment.
Dalai Lama, a spiritual leader of repute, highlights how greed hinders our ability to find joy in the present moment. This quote invites individuals to reflect on how excessive desires for more and more can blind us to the beauty of simplicity and the happiness found in little things. By practicing gratitude and embracing sufficiency, individuals can reclaim their ability to appreciate and savor the simple joys that life offers. Buddha once said that there are two kinds of people who are hard to find in the world: “The one who is first to do an act of kindness, and the one who is grateful and thankful for a kindness done.”
The Roman philosopher Cicero is credited with once saying “Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all the others”. What he meant by this is that all other virtues that we aspire towards-happiness, hope, justice, respect, beauty etc. are made paler and less important. Greed may promise temporary satisfaction, but true fulfilment lies in appreciating the simple joys while fostering meaningful relationships and finding purpose beyond material wealth. Let these thoughts help us to navigate the complexities of our modern world, encouraging us to prioritize on being compassionate, grateful and harbouring a healthier perspective on ‘success’. It’s time to let go of our greed and embrace a life of true abundance. Real life is robbed from all those who are greedy.
The philosophy of gratitude versus greed can be summarized as the difference between focusing on what you ‘have’ versus what you ‘don’t have’. People who are grateful tend to be content with what they have, while those who are greedy are often covetous and want more. A grateful person will say “God gives, therefore my money is His, and I use it to glorify Him”. A greedy person will invariably boast, I earn, therefore my money is mine, and I use it as I desire. People who are abidingly grateful sleep better, and generally enjoy good health. Like love and trust, gratitude is a way we react to other people in our lives, sometimes for who and what they are: lovable or trustworthy. Gratitude is a way we feel and act toward others. It is a primary way we situate ourselves in our relationships. A grateful mind is a great mind which eventually attracts a downpour of great benefits. While grateful people are generous. Ungrateful people are endemically miserly and greedy.
Why is gratitude so powerful? We ought to recognize that there are good things in the world we’ve received. This doesn’t mean that life is perfect. But when we look at life as a whole, gratitude goads us to identify some amount of goodness in our hum-drum life. Be grateful for life, every one of its details and your face will shine like a sun. Grateful people are like fertile fields: They give back what they have received tenfold. The human condition is such that, throughout life, we are profoundly dependent on other people, their care and concern for us.
When we’re comfortable in expressing gratitude, say researchers, we experience fewer symptoms of physical illness; we exercise more; we sleep longer and better; and we report higher levels of positive emotion, exude greater optimism and a greater sense of connection to others. It is confirmed that grateful people hold the keys to a happy life. They are the harbingers of peace and progress in society.
The paradox “money does not buy happiness” sparked a new wave of thinking about wealth and well being. Happiness is a complex construct that cannot be directly controlled. However, happiness is a subjective experience and once we change the way we perceive the world, we begin to cherish, and create happiness for others. In 1972, Bhutan chose to pursue a policy of happiness, rather than focus on economic growth (GDP). Today, this little nation is ranked among the happiest, ranking on top amongst nations with far superior wealth. The pursuit of happiness which is a universal need has been a human pursuit since times immemorial, and is fast gaining meaning and scientific recognition. Happiness is contagious and when we spend time around happy people, we’re likely to get a huge boost to our happiness as well.
Although the benefits of economic development have created substantial gains in living standards, health outcomes, and health care systems, it has also created new health problems. Stress is not only upsetting on a psychological level but also triggers biological changes in our hormones and blood pressure. Happiness seems to temper these effects, or atleast help us recover more quickly. Scientific studies have discovered that happiness a product of gratefulness can make our hearts healthier, our immune systems stronger and our lives longer….. An attitude of gratitude is the KEY!
(The writer is a social scientist and a Sr. practicing
criminal lawyer).
