Deeksha Tar
Humans are inquisitive, never satisfied and always complaining. Though the above factors can push and motivate a person to work to its fullest potential, these same factors may prevent a person from working towards their goals.
Most people have their set of goals, be it for professional excellence or personal gains. But there is a hitch on the way of accomplishing these set of targets. They are our complains and excuses not to do them or to conceal the reason as to why we failed before making it happen. The number of connecting dots between the starting line and final destination of our aim is determined either by our level of crabbiness or our sheer focus. The delay in result isn’t because one is unlucky or not destined it is because one isn’t ready to let go their crankiness and work entirely towards the desired purpose. It is because one doesn’t want to surpass the phase of fear of failure and lack of aspiration.
People usually complain when things don’t necessarily don’t turn up their way, when they lack faith in their doing, when they feel they are superior to appreciate or adjust or at times when they don’t wish to take accountability for their actions. These people satisfy their inner guilt with bunch of irrelevant excuses and calm their honest voice with false truth. They aren’t tough enough to accept the truth and just push burden of their ill-achievements on others.
All of us pass through a phase where things don’t turn out our way, where life doesn’t always respond in a positive manner. It is very common human behaviour to make a fuss about the failures and point out to the reason of failures. We don’t refuse to spend our precious energy to out at why it didn’t happen instead of focusing on how they can make it happen. We forget the fact that a lot can be done and gained if we stop cribbing and holding on to immaterial explanations and actually take baby steps towards our purpose.
So instead of listing down why one failed it is wiser to put down different ways how one can succeed. It might save some time in future and help one not to repeat their mistakes. And of all we have every reason not to whine as there are people in way more inferior position then us.
So stop feeling sorry for your bitter life experiences, stop complaining about your current position, your job and your life. Instead do something to make it right. Divert your overflowing positive energy to get yourself out from your stuck position. Remind yourself that complains is the glitch that is actually holding you behind from getting things done. Just remember if you want to make things happen you will have to break boundaries, take risk and word tirelessly without complaining. You span of life is running fast. So you have two choices get stuck and complain of your position or rub off the rust and run!
